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German spouse visa rejected for "insufficient income" — what to do?
My husband is German, working as a freelancer in Berlin with an annual income of about €28,000. Our family reunification visa was rejected because his income doesn't meet the standard. Any solutions?
Indian mother-in-law wants to move in — how to politely decline?
My Indian husband and I work in Singapore. My mother-in-law keeps hinting she wants to move in to help with the kids. But I know joint family living isn't for me. Is there a way to refuse without hurting feelings?
What's the typical budget for Japanese wedding favors (hikidemono)?
Having a wedding in Tokyo next month, 50 guests. What's best for hikidemono? Limited budget but don't want to seem rude.
US-China divorce: which country has jurisdiction over child custody?
My American husband and I married in China, now living in California. If we divorce, is child custody under Chinese or US law?
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